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\u00a0Tips to get you laid<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Follow these tips and increase your prospects with the ladies.<\/p>\n

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  1. Your appearance<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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    Here the rules are pretty much common sense.\u00a0 The girls will always go for a guy who is good looking and if you are good looking then you are more likely to get laid. \u00a0However, as not everyone is genetically blessed, at the very least, be clean and presentable.\u00a0 That includes smelling good.\u00a0 Bad breath \u2013 either alcohol breath or smoker\u2019s breath are big turn offs as is body odour.\u00a0 \u00a0Make an effort with your clothes, shoes and personal grooming. \u00a0\u00a0Women pay attention to the clothes you wear and even the shoes you have on so always dress well.\u00a0 \u00a0Make sure that your clothes are clean, ironed and fit you well and your shoes are nice.\u00a0 You want a woman to like everything about you.<\/p>\n

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    1. Your manner<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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      Women pay close attention to your body language and your mannerisms, how you interact and talk to people.<\/p>\n

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      Be yourself and not only will someone sleep with you, it will probably be someone that likes you and that you like in return.\u00a0 However, if being yourself means being self-centred and bragging about your own achievements all night you will not be laid.<\/p>\n

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      Tell a woman what it is about her that you like \u2013 flattery is always welcome \u2013 but keep it genuine as women can tell fake flattery a mile off.<\/p>\n

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      Do not get drunk. \u00a0\u00a0Don\u2019t think that the only way you can approach women is with a few drinks under your belt.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 If you approach and talk to women when you have been drinking, firstly you will\u00a0 smell bad \u2013 see tip 1 above, and you will make stupid small talk, slur your words, and not speak clearly and the women will either laugh at you or look down on you \u2013 either way they will not want to sleep with you.\u00a0 So if your goal is to get laid limit your alcohol consumption.<\/p>\n

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      Be chilled. You want to exude an air of being open to possibilities and not to appear desperate.<\/p>\n

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      Be confident.\u00a0 This is all about first impressions.\u00a0 \u00a0If you approach women with a confident manner, in a relaxed, fun and playful mood, they will be more receptive.<\/p>\n

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      Confidence is one of the things that attract women.\u00a0 Confidence says a lot about a man, who he is and his potential to do well in life.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Women want to be with a man who is strong, mentally and emotionally and who can stand up and face the challenges of life.<\/p>\n

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      Smile<\/p>\n

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      When it comes to meeting women and potentially getting laid, it\u2019s important to be confident and be in a good mood. One of the best ways to do that is to smile a lot.<\/p>\n

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      Don\u2019t make the mistake of putting on an act of being cool and aloof.\u00a0\u00a0 If anything, it will just cause you to feel insecure or feel like an outsider.<\/p>\n

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      Smile and feel good about approaching and meeting women.<\/p>\n

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      Keep smiling throughout the night too. Have a good time at the bar or club. When women can see that you\u2019re happy and in a good mood, you\u2019re much more approachable.\u00a0\u00a0 At the very least women will feel more comfortable to smile back at you if you make eye contact.<\/p>\n

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      1. Your approach<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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        At bars and clubs you have the opportunity to approach and talk to lots of different women.\u00a0 Most of the women have made an effort to dress up and look attractive.\u00a0\u00a0 Not all the women will be there for a hen\u2019s night.\u00a0 There will be women there who are looking for a man.<\/p>\n

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        Walk in as if it\u2019s your party, like it\u2019s your sort of scene and as though you fit in perfectly.<\/p>\n

        Smile, feel good about yourself and allow others to feel good in your presence. \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0It helps you to get into the right sort of mood and maintain it, rather than feeling overwhelmed by the people in the club who aren\u2019t smiling at you or welcoming you into their groups.<\/p>\n

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        When you\u2019re in a bar or club, don\u2019t worry what others are thinking. \u00a0Know that smiling and feeling good about yourself gives you an advantage. \u00a0Women will find you more attractive and approachable because you\u2019re confident and in a good mood.<\/p>\n

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        1. Who to approach<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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          Focus on seeing if a girl is continuously looking around the room as if she is also looking for someone to meet.\u00a0 Look for someone who looks approachable and friendly and if they are on their own you are on your way. \u00a0\u00a0Women who are out at bars and clubs by themselves want to meet a man. \u00a0\u00a0Picking up women is a numbers game and the more women that you approach, the greater the chance that you will seal the deal and get laid.\u00a0 You may have to approach many women over the course of the evening.<\/p>\n

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          1. The process<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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            When a girl is by herself and you approach her, talk to her as if you are good old friends.<\/p>\n

            Walk up to her, smile and introduce yourself and ask her name.\u00a0 Begin talking to her and see if you have common interests so that you can share interesting stories about yourselves. \u00a0\u00a0You should also establish if she has plans for later on in the evening, or if she is meeting her boyfriend\/fianc\u00e9\/friends.<\/p>\n

            To establish an emotional connection and some rapport, you must find a way to innocently touch her. \u00a0\u00a0Easily done by touching her arm when offering to get her a drink at the bar.<\/p>\n

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            Once you have already begun touching her and having an interesting conversation with her, you should make plans to get her phone number.<\/p>\n

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            You need to escalate the conversation and interaction with her to establish if she is physically attracted to you, is available, and is open to going with you to either her place or your place. \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Don\u2019t be afraid to let her know that you would like to spend the night with her.<\/p>\n

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            She should be sending very clear signals that she has the same goal in mind.<\/p>\n

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            If she shows that she\u2019s not that interested or shows discomfort or disinterest just move on to the next girl.<\/p>\n

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            Likewise, if she is drunk don\u2019t go any further \u2013 just get her a taxi home.<\/p>\n

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            Obviously if you have only meet one or two women during that evening, your chances of getting laid are less than if you have met 10 or 20 women that night.<\/p>\n

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            If you have introduced yourself to as many women as possible and it has come to the end of the night and the club\/bar is closing, you might just happen to be there for one of these women who doesn\u2019t want to go home alone and invite them home with you.<\/p>\n

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            Lots of men get rejected but lots of people are also up for a one-night stand.\u00a0 \u00a0Act as if picking up women is a game, and that your mission is to progress to the next level with each woman.\u00a0\u00a0 Remember games are fun and the more fun you are having makes you more attractive.<\/p>\n

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            \u00a0Tips to get you laid   Follow these tips and increase your prospects with the ladies.   Your appearance   Here the rules are pretty much common sense.\u00a0 The girls will always go for a guy who is good looking and if you are good looking then you are more likely to get laid. \u00a0However, …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":11135,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"sfsi_plus_gutenberg_text_before_share":"","sfsi_plus_gutenberg_show_text_before_share":"","sfsi_plus_gutenberg_icon_type":"","sfsi_plus_gutenberg_icon_alignemt":"","sfsi_plus_gutenburg_max_per_row":""},"categories":[93],"tags":[119,120,121],"yoast_head":"\nFor Men: Tips to get laid! - Adult Match Maker<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"It's time to up your seduction game! If you have not mastered the art of seduction, you are in the right place. 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