Personal Letter from a Swinging
couple on Full Swap vs. Soft Swap Swingers Couples
We are a young Swinging couple and we have our own philosophy about
how to get good swinger experiences. After all you are risking the
relationship with you loving partner! You should be careful and do
it the right way.
First of all we think Full Swap and Soft Swap swinger couples should
not play together. At traditional swingers clubs most of the guests
are Soft Swap. Our experience is that its very hard for us to find
someone to play with at clubs, even at the great fun4two. And the
reason is always that they are not into Full Swap.
If you are a really Full Swap hard core swinger couple you will
never get satisfied just to look at other people having sex. We just
get frustrated. We like to change partner so experience the �kick�
to have sex with a person for the first time. That's the reason we
are swinging. Off course we can be friends!. We love to have friends
of all kinds. But in our opinion we should not play together since
the rules are different.
Please understand, we are not saying that Soft Swaps are doing it
wrong! We just need more. We are experienced swingers and know very
well what we like.
An other issue is age. In our Brisbane based Swingers Club we have
couples in the age 22-40 yrs, which works very well. But the
traditional Swinger clubs in Australia allow people in all ages. We
think that is no good. If you are young and want to try swinging we
think you will get the best experience with people you are really
attracted to, both psychical and physical. We think its very
important to be selective to get great swinger experiences.
An other issue is time. In our Swingers Club new couples can develop
their swinging in their own way. First we speak on the phone. Then
we meet just to get to know each other. In traditional clubs you
just go into a big room with lots of people you don't know. Then you
more often have to set limits than in a safer environment like a
Swingers Club.
An other issue is standard. Off course there are clubs with high
standard, but there are lots of dirty clubs as well. In our Swingers
Club quality is the only way. We arrange parties at the top hotel
suites or at luxury houses. We like clean sheets, if you finally
have decided to swing, do it with style!
At our parties we just have fun! That's our main focus. Everyone do
just whatever they want. We dance at the tables and play the newest
music.
And maybe we are having
some great aussie sex as well.....
Kind Regards
Emma & Tony
